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The ‘Real’ ‘Man’

This article intends to portray that  “a real man treats his lady the same way he wants another man to treat his daughter.”

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Author : Prerna Jain


Any fool can be a Father, but it takes a real man to be a Daddy!! – Philip Whitmore Snr

Men are the best cooks. Because with two eggs, one sausage, & a little bit of milk he can fill a girls stomach for nine months. – Sandra B

‘Boys’ and ‘men’ differ in terms of their matureness and character. When I say that ‘a man should be real’, I intend to imply that he should be respectful to a ‘lady’. Now, it will be a completely different story, if we are going to discuss matureness and etiquettes of a ‘girl’ and a ‘lady’ here. Lets just focus on “real men” or “gentleman”.

The principal official language of the Republic of India is Standard Hindi. And, in Hindi, when we call a man “namard” [lesser man] or “napunsak” [neuter / impotent] or “hijray” [eunuch], it implicates that he is a male “biologically”, but, is an anti-man either by temperament, or, more likely by conditioning (in ‘literal’ or in ‘figurative’ sense). He behaves in a disrespectful and an ungrateful fashion. He is hostile, aweless and disrespectful of women. He has no understanding and appreciation of woman or womanhood. He just enjoys his social power (of being a “man”/manhood) and thinks that he possess nerves of steel and muscles of iron.

Unfortunately, this kind of namard includes most of  men.

They have no backbone. These men lack courage, courtesy, chivalry. They are highly insecure, chauvinist pigs. Their mind setup states that physical strength (masculine power) is all that matters. This is the root of penury in their hearts. Hence, we witness so many incidences and court-cases of rapes, domestic violence, dowry victims, parda-pratha, sati-pratha (practice), non-acceptance of widow-remarriage, polygamy, prostitution, etc.

……Even the littlest things matter….“Ladies first” is not said just like that . It is profound. It has a significance. It has a meaning.

Not treating women as sex-objects or as punch-bags is what really counts.

But, Now, Here’s the interesting part…

When you call a “literate” man  a “lesser-man”, he would immediately reply ” Oh , Yeah, how dare you say that, I am pretty potent and can stuff any girl for 9 months”. End of story. Now, what more do you expect from such ‘uneducated literates’… In fact, some even have audacity to retort “are you a real lady”? “Why am I only suppose to be responsible. Oh,  Dont you have any duties to follow, and laws to abide”?

 If another girl steals your man, there’s no better revenge than letting her keep him. Real men can’t be stolen.Real men stay faithful. They don’t have time to look for other women because they’re too busy looking for new ways to love their own.

This society is made by men , for men, and also ruled by men……

If you dress sexy, you’re a slut. If you argue with him, you’re hard-headed. If you’re quiet, you don’t care. If you call him, you’re too clingy. If he calls you, he says you should be happy. If you don’t love him, he’ll think you are “playing” hard to get. When you do love him, he leaves. If you don’t f**k him, you’re a tease. If you do, you’re easy. You tell him your problems, he says you’re irritating. If you don’t, he says you don’t trust him. If you lecture him, you just wanna argue. If he lectures you, it’s cuz he “cares”. If you break a promise, he doesn’t trust you anymore. If he breaks it, it’s cuz he had to. If you cheat, he expects it to be over. If he cheats, he wants another chance.

Also Refer :

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22 comments on “The ‘Real’ ‘Man’

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  2. ncsrinu
    September 16, 2012

    nice one !!!

  3. prernajain26
    September 16, 2012

    sahi kaha ..

  4. Mr. Sachin S. Ambesange
    September 16, 2012

    You are right but i am real man.

    • prernaj
      September 17, 2012

      hii sachin… gentlemen do nt say from their own mouths that they are gentleman..okkk 🙂

  5. prernajain26
    September 18, 2012


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  7. Caryn
    September 23, 2012

    🙂 Take care.

  8. ab
    October 15, 2012

    I like this 🙂 awesome facts

  9. pj jp
    October 30, 2012

    the 3 ways :

    Since women are choosy, men have been selected for finding a way to be chosen. One way to do that is to possess traits that women prefer: men with symmetrical body features are attractive to women, presumably because such features are a sign of health. A second way that men can gain access to women is by defeating other men in fights or other kinds of competitions — thereby gaining power, resources and social status, other qualities that women find attractive.

    Rape can be understood as a third kind of sexual strategy: one more way to gain access to females.

  10. pj jp
    October 30, 2012

    Rape takes place not only among human beings but also in a variety of other animal species.

  11. Radha
    November 9, 2012

    I agree

  12. Rajesh
    November 9, 2012

    So true

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  17. Sanjjeev Nehraa
    June 14, 2013

    Excellent article/blog by Prerna. Suggest must also speak about Girls/Ladies those who are real dumb when they don’t understand the men’s feeling being expressed for a good cause….men dislike being ignored and a women must be sensible to understand a real gentleman and an uncommitted man…..! Rgd Sanjjeev Nehraa

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    August 28, 2013


  20. Abhinav
    August 28, 2013

    yes nice

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